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Sunday, November 19, 2006





Illusion Vs. Reality

I have spent a couple of weeks convincing my self of something, being busy at worked helped not seeing any one. Until during the weekend I spent some time with one of my best friends and said: I have decided so and so for the following reasons, and she goes: do you believe this ? the problem is I thought I did until she asked the question!

Now, I'm not sure. I'm totally out of balance! She had a counter argument for every logical idea I had to get to my conclusion. I hated it because after being in balance on this issue after a long time was quite a relief, but now I'm back were I was.

Well, I have decided that I don't care if I live in an illusion, it's my illusion and I like it and I will take my illusion any day over someone else's reality. I'm I the only one? I mean do you every prefer a comfortable lie over the painful truth? Well you know how to deal with the lie you have picked for your self, but you don't know how to deal with the uncertainties that come hand in hand with reality.

That’s it I'm guilty I want to be passive and I choose the illusion !

All for now …..

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think If It's possitive illusion and does not hurt anybody, and still u can diffrenciate between it and reality ,,it gonna be lovely ilusion..It's a window to breath fresh air so keep it open Tamara

Anonymous said...

The problem is .. when we start taking our illusion for real .. to replace the real surroundings .. it gives us this sweet sense of security .. true .. but with time .. we may get into the loop and have a hard time de-attaching ourselves from it and go back to reality ..

I live my illusions often times .. and I hate it when someone comes and reason with me asking me to dump them .. because I know they could have a 3D scenery while I have 1D ...

Tamara said...

mnl

Thanks for passing by my corner: ) well the fact is that there is no positive or negative, buts certain vs. uncertain.

Danah

I think our illusions are our own, and since its our life then the illusion is the truth, an I making sense ? I don't know but things are relative ...

Anonymous said...

Well , its really hard ! But if the truth was bitter , and the lie was better ..... i wont beleive my lie , but i guess i would just avoid talking or encountering the truth !

CheeerZ!

Tamara said...

Dar

This is an issue that is totaly subjective ...what works for one person may not work for another, but enjoing an illusion from time to time is not a bad thing. I think : )

Anonymous said...

Maybe bs I gss sometimes it can get really bad ! e7sebi el benifit risk ratio ........

CheeerZ!